IMPERFECTLY PERFECT

 PERFECT IN AN IMPERFECT                            WAY             



There is an image regarding perfection in this world  which is to be  flawless , faultless and  immaculate .

But is being perfect actually PERFECT ??

Perfection needs a completed figure an excellence , moulding yourself into the shape which the society has attached to the word perfect .
It is just a state of fantasy , a temporary state or wish which asks for one to change itself gazillion times , as the worlds thoughts and expectation always rises .

Thriving to find perfection and trying to achieve it is not what a goal should be because perfection is just a theory which we , to adjust or stand out in the society , just sculpt ourselves into puppets of disguise to be accepted and praised by others rather than ourselves .





So the question is still there , and will be because God made you the way you are , he made you as perfect as a human should be , those wrinkles , freckles , spots , lines just tag along enhancing your beauty , differing you from the world .
Those flaws makes you even more highlighted and beautiful , and give you a sense of confidence and believe in yourself .





Doing botox , face surgeries , using electrical , laser therapies and gastric bypass surgeries just to look good  and get appreciation from the people around will just give you the outer satisfaction . But as the trend of those ; duck lips , breast augmentation , dermabrasion , face lifting , nose reshaping , will end, soon a new technology will arrive which will urge you to change yet again . And these changes are not going to give you the inner satisfaction , comfort and freedom .

These expectations to change diversely will rupture your confidence in your natural beauty leading you to depression and anorexia nervosa in fear of gaining weight and of not standing out in the crowd.


'You should embrace those flaws , make them your strength and show the world that beauty lies beyond perfection'
                                        - ANUM ABBAS

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